I think I know what's bothered me most in all this - the thing that has been nagging at my mind.
No press release.
At least, I haven't seen any sign of one. WotC knew they were letting relatively large numbers of people go, some of them big names. They know that a great many of their customers are internet-savvy, and would quickly get the news. Do they somehow think we'd be unconcerned? That there's nothing about teh whole mess that we'd like to know?
Why on Earth did they not have a press release ready and waiting to meet our concerns? Yes, they have a right of privacy, to do buisiness as they see fit, and it's legal for them to sit behind the NDAs and not say anything. It being legal doesn't mean it's adviseable, or even reasonable.