Teflon Billy said:
Ahh, so it is rudeness that you value.
Do you honestly not see how that's rude? the case for Asperger's gets stronger and stronger.
Oh, and by the way, later that day the boss gives you two weeks notice. If that.
then i get a different job working for a boss who's not the kind of imbecile who's going to ask me every question twice.
yes, it's rude, but i got rude because he persisted in bugging me with something i have no opinion on. to me, guys don't "look good". i don't care what kind of toupee they wear or whether their brad pitt or some other celebrity that the media hypes as "sexy". guys all look ugly to me.
It's time for a straight answer, Hida. Are you looking to get laid, or are you learning how to get yourself into a position where you're socially apt?
i'm looking to be able to ask girls out. eventually i would like to get laid. if i meet the right person, i would also like to form a close friendship with them in addition to the physical aspect. this would be called a "relationship".
"how do I hit on girls...what I'm doing is not working...help me".
actually that wasn't what i was trying to ask. this is what i was trying to ask.
"right now i'm too scared to try to approach girls because i'm afraid of making them and others think that i'm some kind of predator. i want to know how i can show a girl i'm attracted to her and find out if she might be interested in me without offending her. i'm not neccessarily looking for what "works" as far as success/failure is concerned, my idea is more along the lines of see if i can find someone who fits my taste for whom who i am fits their taste. i recognise that my dorky self is not what most chicks go for, and expect to be rejected by many, but i need to at least try, and i'm trying to figure out how to try."
it's not that "what i'm doing isn't working". right now i'm doing nothing. i'm trying to prepare for my final semester, and make a change so that i can at least attempt to talk to girls and ask them out.
I have a question Hida. Where are you trying to pick up girls? 27 year olds aren't that uncommon on a college campus, but your average girl is going to run the 18-22 range. And if you look your age, approaching a girl like that may automatically come across as creepy. Have you tried bars or clubs? Where are you going?
well, pretty much the girls in the 18-22 range tend to be the ones i'm attracted to. not all that into the girls my own age (though some of the younger looking ones my age are still hot.)