Hida Bukkorosu
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advice please. how does one go about approaching girls, lets say, for example, on campus, without coming across as "creepy"?
Start by telling them that you love D&D and you get your love advice from an RPG oriented message board.Hida Bukkorosu said:advice please. how does one go about approaching girls, lets say, for example, on campus, without coming across as "creepy"?
Er, asking somebody you've just met personal questions, especially ones that telegraph you're about to ask her out ("do you have a boyfriend?") is actually creepy.Whisperfoot said:Flirt. This one's pretty big since body language relays how secure you are. If you want someone else to like you, you have to be comfortable with yourself. Before you say a word, make eye contact and smile. If she maintains eye contact, go say hi. When you do start talking, don't be afraid to ask personal questions, like whether or not she has an SO, and what she's into so that you can find some common interests.
Whisperfoot said:Creepy means writing lengthy poetry to the object of your desires, rearranging your schedule so that you can "accidentally" spend time waiting for the bus to show up everyday, or intentionally taking the same classes so that you can be near her.
I'm going to have to disagree. How in the world are you supposed to know if you're wasting your time if you don't ask? There's nothing wrong with being somewhat forward, as long as you're cool about it. Don't make that the first topic of coversation, but there's no reason it shouldn't come up.mythago said:Er, asking somebody you've just met personal questions, especially ones that telegraph you're about to ask her out ("do you have a boyfriend?") is actually creepy.