I suspect it's more a matter of irreconcilable differences than "they're bad," but it doesn't change the ending outcome. The way she ran the game went against the style you're comfortable with, so the best solution is to get out.
Anyway, what I mean about "what are you finding out about your character" is that I designed Ciaran to be a quasi-naturalist keeping a "storm" within. When I started thinking about what Ciaran would do in this or that situation, Ciaran turned out to be less "natural" and far more aloof than I originally expected. I just ran with it, but it does make him less comfortable to be around.