Hive got you under my skin

[Blackrat]

You ever have one of those moments where you feel it's one of the top ten moments of your life? Well last night was not one of those moments. I've been spending time with Rebecca again since I've been at her base for awhile. I've even stayed in her pod a few times so I dont have to sleep in a tent. Last night I told her that I really liked her andI wanted to see where this could go. She told me that I need to pick a side. She won't be with me until I commit to women only. I have to say that kind of hurt me. I don't see why it should matter to her. I mean, if we were to be together I would be with women only as long as I was with her. It makes no sense to me.

I am sorry to hear that Goldie. That sort of bigotry is one of the few things that get on my nerves. I wish I could offer you some comfort, but there are hard choices to be made and all I can say is, talk with her. Explain your views. Tell her those last three sentenses of what you wrote, afterall, they are the only things that should matter.

Now we know we haven't seen much of you lately.

I wasn't aware of a bi/lesbian divide. I wonder if there is a bi/gay divide where gay men would refuse to be with a bisexual man if he didn't commit to being only with men. I guess there would be some like that.

Unfortunately, yes there is.

the advice I've been given and I'll give it to you. Don't change yourself for anyone but you. You have to make the choice to be with women only because that's what you want to do. She shouldn't ask you to make a choice. It's not her right.

As much as I agree with you Aeson, world just doesn't work like that. There are times when some choices are forced on you. All I can say is, is an old saying: This too shall pass.

 

[Aeson]

Sorry. Debating something I have no right to debate.

 

[Goldmoon]

Now we know we haven't seen much of you lately.

I wasn't aware of a bi/lesbian divide. I wonder if there is a bi/gay divide where gay men would refuse to be with a bisexual man if he didn't commit to being only with men. I guess there would be some like that.

It's almost what I've been told. I won't date you unless you're a good Christian man. same principle. I'd have to give up the possibility of belief in anything else other than God. You would have to give up men. i imagine that would mean giving up looking at them as well.

the advice I've been given and I'll give it to you. Don't change yourself for anyone but you. You have to make the choice to be with women only because that's what you want to do. She shouldn't ask you to make a choice. It's not her right.

Do what makes you happy. It sounds at least for now that this would not make you happy. Take some time and think about it.

Is being with other women okay? Or do you have to be committed to her?

I wasnt aware of one either, at least not a serious one. Some of the more vocal gay-rights activests are like that but not too many. I guess I was just really surprised by her saying that. If I were to be with her, I'd be committed only to her so in essence I would be committing to women only for as long as we're together. We're going to talk it about it some more tonight if I'm still here.

 

[Aeson]

I wasnt aware of one either, at least not a serious one. Some of the more vocal gay-rights activests are like that but not too many. I guess I was just really surprised by her saying that. If I were to be with her, I'd be committed only to her so in essence I would be committing to women only for as long as we're together. We're going to talk it about it some more tonight if I'm still here.

Maybe that's what she meant. You had to commit to her which is understandable. With time and communication I'm sure you'll both work it out. If it's meant to be then it will happen.

I will be both happy and sad at the same time.

 

[Tinker Gnome]

*Hugs Goldmoon*

I hope that helps.

 

[Blackrat]

Sorry. Debating something I have no right to debate.

Was it about the last part of my last message? I know I have some controversial views . Anyways, I would actually like to know what it was you said, so would you PM it to me? You know I respect your opinions, and I'm sorry if I sounded like I berated you...

 

[Aeson]

*kisses Galeros*

 

[Tinker Gnome]

*kisses Galeros*

Tee hee.

 

[Aeson]

Was it about the last part of my last message? I know I have some controversial views . Anyways, I would actually like to know what it was you said, so would you PM it to me? You know I respect your opinions, and I'm sorry if I sounded like I berated you...

It was about the last part of your message. I didn't want to get in a debate about things like that while still discussing Goldmoon's issue.

 

[Goldmoon]

Morning Hive!

Oooh, Goldmoon, I am not quite sure what to say.

It's OK Galeros, I'll work it out. *Hug*

I am sorry to hear that Goldie. That sort of bigotry is one of the few things that get on my nerves. I wish I could offer you some comfort, but there are hard choices to be made and all I can say is, talk with her. Explain your views. Tell her those last three sentenses of what you wrote, afterall, they are the only things that should matter.

I'm trying to juggle career and love life and I got thrown a curve. I'm not giving up on this. Like I said, we're getting together tonight and I'm sleeping in her pod. We'll have pleanty of time to talk about it.

Sorry. Debating something I have no right to debate.

It's OK Aeson, I welcome your opinions.

Maybe that's what she meant. You had to commit to her which is understandable. With time and communication I'm sure you'll both work it out. If it's meant to be then it will happen.

I will be both happy and sad at the same time.

Thank you.

*Hugs Goldmoon*

I hope that helps.

Thanks Galeros! *hug*