Ah the standard you tried to hate it and didn't give it a fair shot. Really guys 4e is the only game I have ever seen that this convo looks like this
Player: I don't like how 4e reads
4E fan: Man you at lest need to play it before you say you dislike it
Player: played it didn't like it
4E fan: You went in trying to ahte it and didn't give it a shot, you need to play with a good 4e GM
player: Tried it again, didn't like it
4E fan, you need to play it to level 12 at lest give it more time.
It just goes on and on, always an reason why you need to give it more chances to like it. If a man reads a game and says he dislikes it thats fine with me. But if someone plays it and says the same thing , folks should take that as it's not his game style and drop it. But some folks have this thing with you MUST like 4e or you just tried to undermine it.
Wow, thanks for quoting me! For the record, this type of thing happens all the time, in all walks of life. I did not like sushi the first time I tried it. Or the second. I don't even *like* fish. But I tried it again, and found something about it I liked.
The first time I watched a football game, I was lost, and I thought it was stupid. I tried it again, with someone experienced pointing things out. I found that I actually like it!
You make it sound like I'm some whiny fanboi because I suggested he try something again. Did you read the blog?
"Opinion about 4e, pre game"
Then I played it!
"Same opinion about 4e"
Followed by a list of complaints that are mostly related to playstyle and DM familiarity with the game. I respect his opinion on things he doesn't like. I do not know better than bullgrit what bullgrit likes. However, I am just as free to point out that given a better set of circumstances, he may find his opinion is different.
If I had only read the White Wolf rules, and never played in a game, I can guarantee my opinion would be poor. Luckily, I had a DM who knew the system and knew the lore, and we had a great time playing my first game. Reading the rules != Knowing the game.
Jay