Emerikol
Legend
I think it is a key spectrum of gaming preference and may vary much between players by generatiob or at least games they start with.
Lets put it for me this way.
I have little problem with what i see as character-based neta-gaming elements - as in the player invokes them even outside of the character perspective.
You may be right. It's like a sliding scale and you tolerate depending on where you are on the scale. Numenera was ruined for me by the massive metagame elements there. I love Monte Cook's work too but I didn't like the new system. Still like Monte.
It's kind of funny but I have an "affection" even for my old rivals during the "edition wars". We are kind of like old civil war veterans at that 1920's reunion dinner. I'm past caring at this point about the premise of the wars. It's a mixed bag rule by rule but ultimately I believe the war is lost. I guess that makes me an old confederate ;-). Of course I have the same feeling for my "brothers" in arms.
I enjoy seeing opposing takes on things. And often I can chew up the meat and spit out the bones and still find something useful. I was reading a post by Iserith (who rules wise is close to my opposite) recently that had some good ideas I'll use one day.