Seriously?
You're basically saying that it's the "white liberals" who are pushing this and that it's a made up issue. Completely dismissing the harm and history of the issue and then pretending that it's only some ivory tower "liberal agenda" thing. That "many" First Nations people insist on calling themselves "Indian" (love to see some actual facts backing that one up rather than whatever notion you pulled out of your sphincter) instead of First Nations or Native American. So on and so forth.
Good grief, it's the standard "this is a non-issue" conservative talking point brief. Same ludicrous crap that's been spouted off on EVERY SINGLE SOCIAL ISSUE for the past century.
Replace "Native American" with ANY other minority in American history on any issue, and you can see your words repeated verbatim. It wasn't true when they wanted to prevent women from voting. It wasn't true when they wanted to stop blacks from going to schools with whites. It's NEVER been true.
Doesn't stop folks from repeating it every single time though.
You'd think people would get tired of being on the wrong side of history EVERY SINGLE TIME.
OK, I see now. You twisted just about everything I said, that I don't know where to start, or if I should even bother. I could literally go through every single sentence and try to re-clarify what I actually said and meant, but maybe it is easier to just say that your outrage is based upon projection, misunderstanding, and mischaracterization. You consistently took a partially true version of what I actually said, then twisted it into the worst possible caricature to feed your outrage.
Know that what you're upset about is not what I actually said or meant. Feel better?
EDIT: A bit more. I'll tease out the Native American thing, because that seemed to especially get you riled. I didn't pull that out of my sphincter - a Native American acquaintance said that to me some years ago. Maybe he lied, who knows, but I've heard similar things multiple times. I can't remember the exact word phrasing, but I specifically said "many" because it doesn't give a sense of how many, although he might have said "most." If you want to take this up with him, I can see if I can find his contact info.
But I think you're missing the crucial point that I made, that you either bypassed or didn't see: There is no one-sized fits all. Everyone is different - including members of marginalized groups. If anything, it might be a tad offensive to assume that all members of X group are in agreement about such things. Some really don't care, at least not about the more trivial stuff.
In some cases, yes, it is white liberals and academics who care more about specific words than the actual people they are referring to. I tend to ask if I'm not sure. As a general rule, people care more about being treated as actual human beings, than the exact right word for the group you categorize them as.