Helldritch
Hero
You immediately assume the worst in DM. Most DM will do good honest work for their players. Don't take the morrons and the exceptions into account. A DM trying his best is entitled to a basic amount of respect. If you read my earlier post, it did happen to me once, through no fault of my own, to have such a player at my table and it was not a habit of his either.In a sandbox environment, I might be more sympathetic, but when playing a module, the DM is in control of the story - not the players. It DM responsibility to achieve thematic and cinematic greatness.
Depends what you mean by "play along."
No one deserves respect for work alone. I could draw the letter "a" on a piece of paper one million times. It would be a lot of work, but I'd be a moron for doing it.
It is the DM's job to earn respect by virtue of DMing well. If the DM chooses an adventure boring enough or runs it in a way that makes the players bored enough to go off the rails, then the DM failed and deserves no respect (as a DM, not as a human being). The DM may have failed 1) to run the adventure properly, 2) choose a good adventure, 3) find the right players for that adventure. In the end, however, the result is the same: the DM failed.
Choosing good players is an important DM skill.
Yes, mistakes and bad calls can sometimes be made. Again, this is the exception, not the norm. If a DM is so bad to do such thing regularly, then the DM should simply stop being the DM. Good players should always give the benefit of the doubt to their DM.