Gammadoodler
Hero
Maybe, maybe not. Whole bunch of "it depends" to go around here. But if it is my rule and not a game rule, then your unhappiness is my fault.I agree. Your table, run it the way you and your players like. But, if I am the one player that is not happy, shouldn't you bend the rules for me?
It may be something I feel I have good enough reason to keep that I'm willing to let you be unhappy about it. But you can't make the choice for me, so it's my problem.