Chaosmancer
Legend
1. They can accuse the DM of cheating, milking a male cat or whatever else. Accusations are just accusations.
2. They would be wrong. That would not be cheating, but it would be an equally bad situation where the DM is abusing his authority.
3. Abuse of authority breeds a lack of trust in the DM. Sometimes lack of trust is the player's fault. I've seen many arguments here where it's based on nothing more than some sort of personal player fear. That's not on the DM. Sometimes it's the DM's fault and is based on power abuses. That's on him and the players should find a new DM.
And those power abuses seem far more likely when you say that they can never break the rules, never cheat, because it is a very small step from that to never doing anything wrong.
You're drastically overgeneralizing based on the words of a very few people on a forum with a very small percent of the player base, though. Extremes are bad. Trying to change a game based on a few examples of extremes is itself an extreme reaction and is also bad.
I'm not talking about changing the game at all. You seem to somehow think that the DM being an unquestioned ultimate authority who has full power to enact any change they want and perform any action they want is part and parcel of the workings of the game. And, if your claim is so extreme that NOTHING is beyond the DMs power, then the other side can safely go extreme in testing the limits of that claim.
Yet, you hold firm, and I think that leads to more problems in the community than anything helpful. I don't think there is any other RPG that holds "ultimate authority of the GM" as something they encourage, and I don't think anyone has said that that is the best selling point of DnD.
It rarely happens, but when it does it's almost always a character flaw of the DM, which none of your "fixes" actually fix. The solution as I point out above is to get a new DM.
My "fix" is to get a new DM. But to also acknowledge that they were cheating. IF you go to someone and say "my DM was abusing their authority over the game" they are just as likely to think you are a whining player than to think that you have a legitimate complaint. "The DM cheated" is much more succinct and holds much more weight.
Also, shockingly, I never claimed that being a cheater wasn't a character flaw, so saying that "these issues are only a character flaw in the DM" also doesn't dispute anything I'm saying.
If it's impossible to cheat(the DM), it's also impossible to make an attempt to cheat. It's just the DM changing a rule per RAW. In D&D only the players can make an attempt to cheat. They can make an attempt and then either succeed or fail.
And I think the game is poorer if he have a double standard where only one sub-set of players of the game are capable of cheating, while the others can do anything and never cheat.