I don't intend to be implying that anyone is Doing It Wrong. I'm endeavoring to be clear that I'm talking about my preferences and my experiences. If the people at the table are enjoying the game, they're enjoying the game; I'm inclined to say that's the most important thing, even if I myself wouldn't enjoy that game.These are two extremities on a scale, But note that I've always been saying that it's very rare that games are at one extremity, for me it's always shades of gray along the axis.
What I absolutely refuse is people badwrongfunning people playing towards one end of the scale, namely the more railroading part of it.
In the campaigns I've been running--87 sessions in the one, 54 in the other--the focus has moved around on different timescales, mostly as driven/chosen by the players. That I know of, none of the players have felt that was to their detriment.And yet, in at least two major campaigns that I ran (I'm saying campaigns running for scores of sessions over more than one year), the backgrounds and the resulting intrigues became preponderent, which in a sense is good as it gave player "centricity" but every time we focussed on one player's story, it was at the detriment of all the other players stories. And these were nice people, playing fair, and wanting to share the fun. But in the end, our common agreement was that it was in general better to run a central DM-led story with large contributions from players with side stories.
I should be clear: I start campaigns by instigating, hard. If the PCs are dithering, or if there's a lull, I do so again. But those instigations are starting points. I have little-to-no idea where the PCs will take things from there.
In my experience, railroads are about the DM's story, not about the PCs. A perfect railroad is a novel the players sit through.Note that is a somewhat different matter, a perfect railroad can totally be completely about the PCs...
You seem to be using "scenario" differently than I do. A "scenario" (as I prep) is ... This is what is. These are the people, these are their goals, these are things going on. While I might figure out what may happen if the PCs don't act, I never plan anything based on their taking any given action, and I never negate any action they take. Does it sound to you as though they're being railroaded?So you do have scenarios. So if they follow such a scenario, are they being railroaded ?