Yup. When I pointed out that they should have taken accountability for their actions (
the reason for me leaving), and told them all of the reasons using examples they created that were out of my control that they could have resolved seeing as they were the DM. But, instead, they chose to ignore that and gaslight me
I mean, we communicated. He just likes to conveniently forget, but will remember minor details from 10+ years ago that are unimportant to most things.
By the way, I care a bit, because of the one character I spent a bunch of time playing and having fun with. But it was time to leave that toxic game, especially with how they acted after I left and continually shifted blame at me and absolved themselves.