overgeeked
Open-World Sandbox
Unpopular opinion. Unless you’re the world’s best referee (and you are not) you cannot reasonably expect 100% attention from your players for 4-6 hours. Also note, things like ADHD exist and there’s a good chance someone in your group has it…if not multiple people. Their brain is literally incapable of giving you 100% attention for 4-6 hours. Them diving into their cell phone is infinitely less distracting and disruptive to the rest of the table than the other options. Constantly rolling dice, talking over people, interrupting, talking about unrelated things, playing with the maps and minis, etc. Trust me. You’d much rather they stare at their phone for a few minutes at a time when it’s not their turn. You can choose to take it as an insult or disrespect. But chances are that is them being as respectful as they can be…by not disrupting the game for everyone else. Source: I am a gamer with ADHD and I’m the father of a gamer with ADHD.