If people would stick to “stuff I like” then there would be no argument. Not a whole lot to argue about if you like something.
Yep.
But it’s very often taken the next step. “Stuff I like is better than what you like”. “I like this because it’s better”. The qualitative judgement that very often accompanies “stuff I like”.
Pardon the sarcasm here, but... Oh noes! Someone gave a qualitative judgement I don't agree with! I must don my internet superhero suit, and defend because... someone is wrong on the internet!!1!
Okay, done with sarcasm.
It takes two to tango, right. There wouldn't be much argument if everyone else just let folks vent, either. This need to be right is what is exhausting, ultimately.
And if we cannot refute that with facts because they “like” it then there is absolutely no point in discussing anything. Simply claiming “I like this” shuts down all discussion.
Wow, no.
Dude, there are entire worlds of discussion that aren't two people trying to refute each other with facts.