FrogReaver
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Character death due to arbitrary roll is not high-stakes, though; it's random crap. In fact, character death is the least imaginative of stakes to be high.
Most everything bad that happens in an RPG is random crap coming about due to die rolls.
Thus, I think it’s something more than randomness that’s the underlying issue here.
I’d also suggest that if character death wasn’t high stakes that it’s hard to make sense of why something low stakes would bother you that much?