1) If you have an issue with other people's tone, don't come out all high-and-mighty like the all-knowing expert of DnD like you and this other dude did. People may respond accordingly if you address them condescendingly and patronize them.
2) Absolute statements are statements that use words like always, never, all, and the like. I don't think I have used any of these words in any of my posts with regards to anything, so please show me where I have made such a statement. Otherwise, I assume you mean factual statements rather than personal or opinion statements. "Xyz is better" is a value judgment aka opinion. "I have never encountered this issue" is a personal statement. In contrast, "xyz is widely banned" is a factual statement that can be proven with quantified data. If you don't have that data or don't want to put in the effort, don't make such statements. In contrast, statements like "I have never had that issue" are personal anecdotes. They don't have the same weight, but at least they are honest. So, don't try to equate the two. And remember, if all you say is "xyz is widely banned", then I can say "xyz is not widely banned" and it's on the same level. If you lose your cool over that, that's on you.
3) In this context, don't try to accuse others of making "absolute" statements when you're the one who making "absolute" statements like "xyz is widely banned" or "xyz happens rarely" since you effectively don't and can't know that unless you did respective research which apparently neither of use has. At best, it may even show that you're out of touch with the community and not even familiar with the Adventurer's Guild rules, which are often used, especially for online play, and can be found here:
D&D Adventurers League. FYI: These rules are regularly updated, so I suggest going here directly rather than reading about them on Reddit as you may read posts from several years ago and think they are just accurate when the rules have since then changed.
4) Don't make such sweeping statements as described above and then tell others, "your experiences aren't universal" because you just claimed that yours would be when you say things like "xyz are widely banned" because no, they are not widely banned from my experience.
5) If, however, you mean my statements with regards to the rules to the other dude, yeah, sorry, but no:
- You don't use rules for one thing and then apply them to something else, because that's not how rules work. You wouldn't use the rules for the Study Action to take the Utilize Action either.
- Just because you use a definition from page xyz to analyze something on page abc, you can't simultaneously use the rules from page xyz for what is described on page abc. If you use the rules for a traffic violation in a criminal investigation to define what a motorized vehicle is, would you give the perpetrator just a ticket for manslaughter because the traffic rules, where you got that definition from, speak of a ticket?
- Words have certain meanings as defined by the language and the rules in use, including the respective context. Or would you, if your kid pointed at a tree and proclaimed "dog", say that's it's a valid opinion that you respect, so now "tree" and "dog" are interchangeable in meaning and it's just a matter of interpretation?
- Speaking of which, "it's a matter of interpretation" without being backed up by respective analysis is a cop-out to pretend that your unreflected opinion would be equal to one by somebody who put time and effort into figuring something out. It's disrespectful to people who actually apply themselves to something, especially if you explicitly say that you don't want to be bothered by such things and actually don't care. It's like arguing with your doctor because you read something on WebMD and based on what the nurse I'm married to says, it's dealt with in similar fashion.
6) Don't dig your heels in over "xyz" being better than "abc" when you can't handle dissent.
7) Pointing out that I have been wrong without being able to back it up just repeats your opinion from before and nothing more. Everyone is wrong all the time about something. Some more than others.
8) Don't argue over topics that you don't know anything about, because if you do, you won't have any valid or reasonable arguments. If you don't even want to put in the effort to inform yourself about the topic of discussion, all it shows is that you are there to argue for the sake of antagonizing other. And that other dude all but said so explicitly when he said that he just wanted to ensure that people coming to these forums see dissenting views. And I didn't even point that out, partially because I'm not emotionally involved here. But regardless, if you do that nonetheless, don't complain if others respond accordingly because they might.
9) Don't tell people that you don't want to continue the conversation, then reply anyway, and then block them before they can reply. It only shows that you're one of those people who are desperate to have the last say. The other dude did just that, so I'll just tell you in advance, in case you plan to do the same.
10) And finally, to illustrate some of the above:
You said:
which is exactly what I said earlier:
So, don't act otherwise and stop projecting when you're the one making "absolute" statements like
or
, especially when you can't back them up and the book is Tasha's.
In short and as I told the other guy, check yourself before pointing fingers at others because neither of you is even an ounce better than what you're complaining about. But if you want to block me, go ahead and do it. It won't change a thing for me. And whether I'm the first on that list or not doesn't really matter. It shows more about you than me either way and my mantra is "if you have a problem with me, that's your problem."
I'm able to just let it go. Are you?