Mark,
My sympathies to you and your entire family. Sadly, I have been in the same situation myself.
I am sorry that I have been out of touch. (There are a few things I am working on.) Hang in there mark.
Please contact me if you need someone to talk to about this. Your family will need your strength and your wisdom in the days to come. So, remember, there are people who think very highly of you and are here to support you.
William