What "strawman arguments" specifically are you talking about?
As to the rest, it's unclear to me why you're so seemingly upset. I'm quite willing to believe you have tried such systems and don't speak from ignorance but you seem to believe my general assertions were an attack on you personally. I would maintain a lot of weird opposition to narrativism does come from a place of ignorance and fear, but I didn't suggest all of it did, despite you seeming to believe that.
Just as an example of how paranoid and weird some people get about this, I saw a post on Reddit earlier about how Daggerheart was basically an evil trick to try and get pure hearted gamists to play a "story-game", which was apparently made in all seriousness. There's a lot of it out there.