Mistwell
Crusty Old Meatwad
I think the arguement ended a while ago actually.
We have two reasonable interpretations of the charge rule. One requires that you move towards the center of the creature, the other does not.
We have the ride by attack rule, which requires that charging allow you to not move towards the center of the creature.
The only person left who is still claiming it the "moves towards center of creature" agrees that you would have to houserule the ride-by-attack feat to make sense of his interpretation of the rules.
Hence, the only logical position left is that you don't have to move towards the center of the target. You don't default to houseruling when there is another reasonable interpretation that does not require houserulling.
We have two reasonable interpretations of the charge rule. One requires that you move towards the center of the creature, the other does not.
We have the ride by attack rule, which requires that charging allow you to not move towards the center of the creature.
The only person left who is still claiming it the "moves towards center of creature" agrees that you would have to houserule the ride-by-attack feat to make sense of his interpretation of the rules.
Hence, the only logical position left is that you don't have to move towards the center of the target. You don't default to houseruling when there is another reasonable interpretation that does not require houserulling.