Yaarel
🇮🇱 🇺🇦 He-Mage
In the past, I took the view that the elf Dexterity was "too Tolkien" and "wrong" for certain kinds of elf concepts.I still like them, but prefer a path halfway between, something like the half elf for every race with a +2 to a single stat and then a +2 (or two +1s) placed where you choose. The variable stat should also be able to be replaced with a feat, just like an ASI.
I was equally essentialist, I just had a different perspective about what the essence should be. For me, the essence of a mythologically-accurate elf archetype is absolutely, unambiguously, Charisma.
Along comes Tashas. This book says, pick whatever ability you want.
You know what? This freedom is a better game-design approach.