D&D General ENWorld is better that the pundits…change my mind

[MichaelSomething]

I honestly don't know how to respond to the rest of your post. Your anecdotal experiences are so alien to my own anecdotal experiences that we seem to be living in completely different spheres. I don't know which of us, if any, is the outlier.

Do you think D&D can accommodate the both of you? If not, which one of you should be catered to and which one should be ignored??