You know, while I agree it is too SOON for this, I guess I don't see the inherent problem...
We (as a country) play WW2 flight sims about the war in the pacific, despite the events at Pearl Harbor...
We play games set in Vietnam, despite the controversy over that whole affair...
There are games set during Desert Storm, despite the fact that (from a tactical point of view), that wasn't a "fair fight"... (Mind you, I don't care about "fair" in war, but a lot of people I know always make the point...)...
So really... what is the true problem here? I agree its too soon, but I don't really see any real PROBLEM here...
*shrug*