Axiomatic Unicorn
First Post
The only quote I attributed to you was the "harsh" comment. (And if you scroll back through the thread you can easily find that it was made toward me.)
My point is that you are concerned that my comments may lead to more inflammatory exchanges, but you comment DID lead to more inflammatory exchanges.
Is that your fault? No. Not at all.
Suggesting that someone should consider self-censorship seems safe enough. But here is another thing that is very human:
Someone else will come along and decide that you have a point, but depending on me to do it myself is not good enough. This process has happened many times in human history and, as you said, "it has brought to much pain to the world".
I simply find it amusing that your effort to be the *good guy / peace maker* precipitated the real heated exchanges.
As they say, The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.
What freedom did I encroach? Is there some freedom to not be criticized which I am unaware of? Seriously, where in my comments that you responded to, did I cross over Michael's freedom?
And again, telling a person how they "should" express themselves is step one in someone else telling that person how they MUST express themselves. As this thread demonstrated on a very minor scale.
As to the harshness of my comment. I completely disagree with you. I am simply not at all ashamed of making an honest statment.
Michael asked for comments. I provided comments.
His reply indicated that I had given bad advice for the authors of great literature. Is it unclear at all that he was saying that I had given advice that was bad advice for him? Therefore, the advice I give to him should only be advice appropriate for a great master of literature.
The are many times that the worst thing you can do for somebody is to let them remain deluded, because you don't want to "hurt their feelings."
My point is that you are concerned that my comments may lead to more inflammatory exchanges, but you comment DID lead to more inflammatory exchanges.
Is that your fault? No. Not at all.
Suggesting that someone should consider self-censorship seems safe enough. But here is another thing that is very human:
Someone else will come along and decide that you have a point, but depending on me to do it myself is not good enough. This process has happened many times in human history and, as you said, "it has brought to much pain to the world".
I simply find it amusing that your effort to be the *good guy / peace maker* precipitated the real heated exchanges.
As they say, The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.
I don't try to limit anobody capacity to express their thoughts. I like freedom of expression. But IMHO you must learn to use your freedom. Your freedom finishes where other people freedom begins, we say in Spain, you are free to say anything you like, but you should try to say it in a way not hurting to other people feelings.
What freedom did I encroach? Is there some freedom to not be criticized which I am unaware of? Seriously, where in my comments that you responded to, did I cross over Michael's freedom?
And again, telling a person how they "should" express themselves is step one in someone else telling that person how they MUST express themselves. As this thread demonstrated on a very minor scale.
As to the harshness of my comment. I completely disagree with you. I am simply not at all ashamed of making an honest statment.
Michael asked for comments. I provided comments.
His reply indicated that I had given bad advice for the authors of great literature. Is it unclear at all that he was saying that I had given advice that was bad advice for him? Therefore, the advice I give to him should only be advice appropriate for a great master of literature.
The are many times that the worst thing you can do for somebody is to let them remain deluded, because you don't want to "hurt their feelings."