Imaculata
Hero
When somebody says something like "OA is culturally offensive" and we don't immediately see why that is true, our reaction to the claim speaks volumes:
Do we assume that since we don't see it, it's nonsense, and that therefore the person with the complaint is making stuff up? And, furthermore, this is a perfect example of how people are making up non-existent problems just to grab attention and make things difficult for the rest of us?
Or do we think, with humility, that perhaps there's background we don't know, and that before we start spouting off about what other people should be bothered by, we should ask a lot of questions?
One of the reactions that I see quite often, and which always enfuriates me, is when people then manifacture offense themselves, in order to defend the offensive material.
Like for example, one person says Oriental Adventures is offensive, and then someone else says: "Well, standard D&D is a hotchpotch of European cultures, so maybe I'm offended by that as well!"
No you are not. THAT is manufactured offense and it is a dishonest argument. It is a blatant refusal to understand another person's point of view. We do need a bit of humility here. We need to honestly admit when we don't know why something is offensive, and then try to understand why.