"I'm not looking to be offended."
QFT. This single incisive comment cuts the to the core of the issue. I personally subscribe to a similar outlook on life as you do Vartan- it just makes life so much more enjoyable. Someone might come up to you and say "You're an incompetent idiot with no fashion sense." My response depends on whether I'm looking to be offended. If I am, I'll have an emotional response that likely results in me getting in the person's face about their comment, and potentially things can get ugly. If I am not looking to be offended, then I just shrug, say "thats your opinion", step around them and walk on past.
What really boggles my mind is that during the 4e rollout, not ONCE did the 4e designers attack any single individual personally, as the example phrase above did. Instead, they said they found problem areas in the game, and tried new workarounds to remedy them. Some people would like their solutions, others might not- I think they knew that. Yes, they tried to be cute about some of their criticisms, with the attitude that we, as gamers, can laugh at ourselves. While that decision was questionable (as was the assumption that people wouldn't become offended), they were trying to highlight what had been pointed out by people at conventions and in the online community as problems and flaws in the existing system. Now, I can sort of understand getting offended if someone attacks you personally, but for criticism of a game rule or a playstyle? Really? A GAME is the most important things some folks have to be concerned about in their lives? Kinda puts things into perspective.
No game system is perfect, and there is a high degree of subjectivity in what works for each individual. Valid criticism of a game or its rules is fine- criticism in and of itself can be a good thing if it is done rationally and ideas are exchanged- thats the model for how ideas, theories, or in this example a game system should evolve over time. But when emotionally laden arguements like "they totally screwed the multiverse model", "wizards suck because they aren't like they used to be", "they dumbed the game down for the MMO crowd with the attention span of a gnat", "WotC betrayed the D&D legacy" etc. are tossed around we go from valid debate and criticism of an issue to simple trolling. No discussion of ideas are possible because some people are simply looking to vent emotionally and be agitators.