TwoSix
Everyone's literal second-favorite poster
Yea, I doubt most groups have any real issues here, because you're usually playing with friends and people go along to get along (which I think is the best approach, unless you feel your game is getting stale and might benefit from a shake up.)So, yeah, I've never had any of these issues because my players and I talk to each other with respect and understanding and try to have fun, instead of trumping each other with power plays (IT'S MAH FLUFF ... NOT, ITS MAY SETTING). It's all good, though.
I think the real benefit to these threads is realizing that there's a wide range of preferences in how to roleplay, and encountering a player with wildly different preferences from yours doesn't mean that either of you is an a**hole. Someday in the future, whether that be at or a con or if you invite a new player into the group, that information just might stop a conflict from starting. I absolutely think I'm a better player and DM now than I was 10 years ago from reading threads like these.
The other important point for this thread is if your player wants to multiclass a thri-kreen katana, you as a DM have no choice but to allow it.