Author (and artist) of The Book of Erotic Fantasy

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MeepoTheMighty said:


Or he'll just go on the internet and get more porn than he knows what to do with, and spend his money on weed instead. I really think parents have a lot more to worry about than whether or not Timmy has seen a book that, from the sounds of it, has less nudity than a Playboy.

I think you and others are looking at this issue in a vacuum. It does no good to compare this book to porn, because it is a gaming book, not a porn book (or is it?). The only relevant comparisons are to other gaming books, and whether or not this book crosses the line compared to them.

If the book can only be defended as "not as bad as Hustler," then I think it's already lost the battle.

It doesn't help that one person arguing for the book already admitted he shows porn to his 4-year-old children.
 

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Kids and Sex.

Kids are cute, kids are cuddly. Never leave a kid alone with a loaded handgun. For that matter, never leave a kid ignorant of sex, and all that comes with it.

When my nephew was 15 he'd look up certain sites on the Internet. This led to a talk from his father, and the computer getting moved into the family room so mom and dad could keep an eye on his activity. When mom and dad were home, he was a good boy. But when they were gone he'd go looking for sex sites again.

While his then 11 year old sister was home. Naturally, she'd tell mom and dad about her brother's misdeeds, and he'd get into trouble.

Her take on what he was looking at?

"Yuck." (That is a direct quote.)

Yes, the two would watch R rated flicks on the premium channels. Even the ones with full or partial nudity. Their parents' reaction to it? Better they see nudity than run into some predator in a chat room.

Folks, things are changing, and will change. By the time your grandkids have kids of their own I doubt folks will get upset about nekkid folks on kiddie shows, complete with the proper equipment. When a sex scene pops up in an evening program the youngins will likely learn a valuable lesson. Namely, that forcing people to have sex is bad. Sex is only good when both parties are willing participants

One day three boys, an American, a Brit, and a French kid caught a couple doing the two back tango.

The American asked, "What are they doing?"

The Brit replied, "Making love."

The French kid took a look at the scene and added, "Oui, and badly."
 

d20Dwarf:
It does no good to compare this book to porn, because it is a gaming book, not a porn book (or is it?).

No no, I'm in no way comparing it to porn, I was defending it as not being porn, the guy from Apex, NC said that 15yr old kids would get their 18yr old friends to buy it for them and I simply stated that if they want porn they'll get an $8 porno mag on just go to a friendly website, not buy a D&D book about Sex, Romance, etc. It'd be like askin your friend to buy you a Glamor or Cosmo cause they have sexy advertisements. lol, I just need to shut up before yall think I'm a freak.
 

CMG57 said:
I am always surprised at the intolerance of gamers. One might expect those engaged in a hobby quick to be accused of being bad or evil to be a bit more open minded of things that are different.

First, if this reply looks godawful, it is because I made a mistake in my reasoning about how to intersperse my comments with a quote. Hopefully, it looks okay.

The use of language on this thread has been - I feel- very sloppy, resulting in postings that can be read as extreme, as I read the post that I am quoting. For all those who do not mean this, please be more careful and remember that we cannot see your faces.

The word 'intolerant' as it is most commonly used should more precisely be stated as "intolerant due to bigotry" or, perhaps, "irrationally intolerant". In the broader sense, I hope that each person here is "intolerant" of quite a wide number of activities (murder, theft, illegal drug use, and so on). The questions here should concern where is that line drawn and what are proper responses to take when one feels it has been crossed. To say that someone opposed to what we have seen of the BoEF is "intolerant" - as it's commonly used - is improper, as it is entirely possible that one could actually have a well-defined and well thought out moral system that happens to find some things objectionable.

One should not be so "open-minded" that one's brain falls out!

CMG57 said:
Games depict every aspect of life: from war to food to sleeping, so why is it that games or game products depicting sex or even nudity cause such an uproar. ... material cut for space ... The photographs I have seen are professionally done and tasteful. It matters not what the photographer does on his own time and with his own career. The fact is that he has produced quality prints for this manual. The statement that Anthony Valterra is using his position at Wizards to further this project holds no logic; anyone, yes, anyone may use the OGL/d20 license for their product as long as they follow the requirements listed therein. ... material cut for space ...

As someone else pointed out, in the cultures where most of the role-playing material is made, takes place, and sells, violence is a social activity and sexuality is a private activity. Due to this, there is concern about whether this product is being made and marketed for prurient purposes. I imagine and hope that a book illustrated with photographs that proposed to detail graphically the real effects of fighting with medieval weaponry and dwelling on the pain caused would trigger the same sort of response. After all, aspects of sexuality exist in a number of places in the game system - in an abstracted fashion, in the same way that fighting is abstracted. (Although admittedly not to the same degree, but remember the roots of RPG came from wargaming. If the roots were in sex games, we would not be seeing this response, and also most people posting in this thread would not be here.

My judgment of the photographer's taste is different than yours. That does not in itself prove that you are wrong in this matter of taste (of course, it doesn't prove you are *right*, either!), but since the photographer's site was specifically cited in the press release, it has already been chosen (by Valar, inc.) as relevant to the discussion.

Finally (and this was not directly addressed by Cayle, but I didn't want to respond ten different times to ten different posts just to up my post count), while it is a form of self-censorship to choose not to buy a product, and to choose not to shop at a store that carries products that I feel are beyond a line I've set for myself, that's a reflection of straightforward ethical responsibility, not some "intolerant" attempt at *imposing* censorship on anyone else. I reject the idea that I have some responsibility to choose to shop at a store that carries material I find repeelent over shopping at a store that doesn't, just to show I'm not "intolerant".

Harry
 

d20Dwarf said:

It doesn't help that one person arguing for the book already admitted he shows porn to his 4-year-old children.

Excuse me? I said no such thing, and I rather resent you putting words in my mouth.

I said that if your kid gets into your porn, you should take the opportunity to explain some of the facts of life, lest they start making things up on their own. Likewise, if your four year old somehow ends up seeing an absurdly violent TV show or movie, it should be taken as an opportunity to explain about what violence is and that TV isn't real.

In summary, whatever your child is exposed to, you should be there as a parent to keep them from misunderstanding what is going on.

I leave whatever moral slant you put into your explanations up to you and your personal ethical code. Like Eric said, that is really none of my business.
 

MerakSpielman said:

I would still rather my children run around having sex than run around waving guns around.

This is a false dilemma. I would not want my children doing either of them.

Call me a puritan, but is a book on erotic sex going to contribute to D&D? Are gamers so unimaginative or lacking in experience that we need to learn from a book how to do it?

The D&D stereotype says gamers lack social skills and have difficulty interacting with other people. This book only confirms that type. Rules for adding erotica? Please.

What's next, D20 rules for a hosting a dinner party?
 

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