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They actually said the opposite and that there is no canon. And that makes sense. There are hundreds of books written in the FR, and many of those books require introducing new materials or changing old ideas. How could anything new be made for the FR while trying to balance hte incoherent stories of 50 books, let alone hundreds?I'm hardly upset, I just don't count alternative forms of media as existing in the same universe. It doesn't matter how cool they are. The MCU, for example, is not the same place as universe 616 in the main Marvel comics canon. It doesn't mean I object to the MCU, but what happens there has no direct effect in-universe on the comics. And its the same with video games based on a literary property. Popularity simply doesn't enter into it.
Has WotC come out and stated that these video games to which you are referring are part of the core story of the FR? They did with the Gold Box series (publishing supplements to that effect), but I haven't heard of anything like that more recently.
At the end of the day, it's ok for you to not count anything else as canon. But no one else cares, and I don't say to be rude or dismissive, but it's just a very personal problem you have and you can't really convince other people to accept your views when they are a little bit outlandish, as this is. And it isn't that I think lore consistency is bad, it should always be reached for, but in a game with parallel timelines and universes, alternate realities, wish spells, gods, etc, you really should never, ever, ever expect that everything will conform itself to the original vision. Even Greenwood doesn't share his original vision; the original FR Campaign Guide is a totally different FR then the one Greenwood has published 5 books on the DM's Guild for.
You expect WotC to keep a strict canon when the setting's creator goes back and changes things?