TwoSix
Everyone's literal second-favorite poster
No, it isn't. Saying something isn't a virtue doesn't make it a vice. Preferring pepperoni pizza is also no virtue, but that doesn't mean I think it's bad.No, it's not just a preference. Virtue is literally a synonym of good. Saying it's no virtue is saying it's not good. In other words, it's saying that your way is better. No different than saying that the other way is boring(ie bad). Both are expressions of superiority and neither is gatekeeping.
My own preferences are also not in any way virtuous, they're simply what I prefer. Hell, half the discussions in this forum over the past 20 years are simply reminding people that just because they like to play in a certain style, that doesn't mean it's any better than any other playstyle. I'm sure MikalC's playstyle works just fine with his group, and I don't think he needs to change anything, but it would be a poor fit at my tables.