Dragonblade
Adventurer
Its all a matter of style and taste. And you are right in saying that characters ought to behave realistically, but a player who likes to define his characters by his items shouldn't be penalized for doing so or made to feel like he is whining because an item that was essential to his character's identity has been destroyed.
To you its just an item, but to him you have just "killed" his character. Damn straight he is going to be upset.
Yes, in a sense its meta-gaming. But we are playing a GAME after all, even though some people lose sight of that fact. For some the enjoyment of the game comes from having a hero who is similar to other literary heros that they admire. Or perhaps his character is quite unique, yet as in literature, the players image of his character is partially defined by his abilities (granted by items in the case of D&D).
Why should that player be penalized because his DM is on some power trip and likes to show the players he is in charge by destroying items every once in a while?
Now if the PC goes and sticks his sword in the waters of the Pool of Disjunction, I have no sympathy for him. But in the normal course of play, major character defining items should be pretty safe.
To you its just an item, but to him you have just "killed" his character. Damn straight he is going to be upset.
Yes, in a sense its meta-gaming. But we are playing a GAME after all, even though some people lose sight of that fact. For some the enjoyment of the game comes from having a hero who is similar to other literary heros that they admire. Or perhaps his character is quite unique, yet as in literature, the players image of his character is partially defined by his abilities (granted by items in the case of D&D).
Why should that player be penalized because his DM is on some power trip and likes to show the players he is in charge by destroying items every once in a while?
Now if the PC goes and sticks his sword in the waters of the Pool of Disjunction, I have no sympathy for him. But in the normal course of play, major character defining items should be pretty safe.
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