Diamonds are exceptionally common, and their value (in the real world) is massively inflated by the company with the monopoly on diamond mining artificially limiting supply to an extreme degree.
So it is weird that our fantasy worlds value diamonds in exactly the same way we do
Exactly?
Now I don't want to poo-poo your post, but your wording triggered my number crunching addiction
An "ordinary" diamond, based on the DMG, is worth 5000 gp. Now we know there are smaller, cheaper diamond, so let's say it's a "nice" diamond, but not some kind of ultra rare flawless pink diamond either
I'm not a gemologist, but a quick web search says that a 1 carat diamond is priced in the 1 300 to 16 000$ (a number of ranges exist, they are all in the same rough spot). So let's pick... 5000 dollars, for ease of comparison.
Now let's say you have that nice 5000 dollars diamond in the real world, vs having that diamond in D&D, and that in both cases, you cash out and use the money to sustain yourself for a year.
5000$ a year is NOT going to carry you far, and is far lower than poverty levels in North-America.
In D&D, you could like like an
aristocrat on 5000 gp a year. Heck, if you decide to live modestly (but not poorly), that gem will keep you going for well over 10 years!
So... it would appear that diamonds are far more valuable in D&D than they are in the real world.
I'll note that the biggest challenge in this type of comparison is picking the real world equivalent of a "standard" D&D diamond.