Hriston
Dungeon Master of Middle-earth (He/him)
As for the "stand behind a friend and attack" part of it, I have decided to give disadvantage in my game in some situations, and I never allow the butt end bonus attack when they have an ally between them and their target. Think about trying to swing a pole axe. With your ally in the way, the arc would have to be straight down on either side of him. You could not swing from side to side or a miss would certainly mean bludgeoning damage to your friend. Now try to imagine whirling the opposite end of the weapon around without hitting your friend. I don' see it.
Of course there remains the possibility that your friend ducks or moves into a low forward-lunge so you can swing the pole-arm over his head. I would think that would be a natural way to fight in multiple ranks.