Ummm, this is going to sound wierd, but... Did the girl's mother game at a store in Massachusetts caled the 'Toy Soldier', though it later changed it's name to 'Chris' Games and Hobbies'?
Failing that did she game in the Portsmouth N.H., Kittery Me.,Bath Me., or Portland Me. areas in the late '70s, eary '80s?
I am about 95% certain that I've seen that very board before, when I was a rather younger man. Be nice to know if I am right.
The Auld Grump