It feels like its all degrees.
Do you decontaminate all of your packages you get and not get any carry out food? If not, you could be safer, right? (I mean, the risks are small, but not zero).
My son is going back to scouts - its outside or in a garage with a garage door and side door open and everyone masked, with 10 or fewer people. That more virus dangerous than keeping him home non-stop and less dangerous than having him go play unmasked at a bunch of friends houses (this is his first time with any friends here since March except for RC boating from opposite sides of a 30' pool, and one spaced out hike by the river in the summer).
With all three groups having isolated pretty well for months, this summer nine of us met on an annual family trip to a cabin. Our trio didn't go in any restaurants driving the 20 hours and slept in the car instead of a hotel. Thats more virus dangerous than seeing no one for nine months but less bad than having stopped along the way, or staying with anyone who hadn't been being cautious, or staying with a big group.
Assuming the party wasn't 25 people (or whatnot) crammed in a house all unmasked, I definitely feel bad for them after they'd been locked down for so long :-( And even if it was a stupidly big group being incautious, I assume we've all done something inane at some point in our lives, and most of us have been lucky enough not to die or be disabled from it. On the other hand, the folks who regularly do it... at some point it is all on them (and the easier life is for them otherwise, the sooner and more blame I give them).