Hypersmurf
Moderatarrrrh...
Sunder IS a feat.
Attack an object is the non-feat version.
Strike a Weapon, if we're getting technical.
As an attack, I'd think that it's perfectly possible as an AoO.
Table 8-4 disagrees with you.
Trip, Disarm, and Grapple have their own little "Action Type" section, and carry the double-dagger footnote symbol that states they can be used as an AoO.
Strike a Weapon falls in the "Standard Action" section, and lacks the double-dagger.
-Hyp.