Doug McCrae said:Some people are happy to remain in the background. Robin Laws calls this type the casual gamer. This guy might not be naturally quiet though, he could just be holding back cause he's new.
In what way does this behavior remind you of the OP's description? It sounds like your player did not care about the game and was rude. The OP's player was quiet, but not rude or disengaged.Wombat said:I had a guy like that once. ... He was late to two of them and spent a long time yakking with his girlfriend by cellphone on the third.