Bah, what arrogance. You "help that group out" by not sitting with them. This is the exact problem I have with anti-fudgers in this thread. Your posts don't read like you're interested in a good game, having a good time, or making new friends. Your posts all read like the only person who matters at the table is you and if you're not happy, the DM is an evil Machiavellian jerk whose only intent is to ruin your fun.
Whatever. I don't want to be part of this discussion anymore, too much negativity.
Arrogance would be me thinking I improve any group that includes me -- not that my exclusion is helpful.
What helps the group more, me sitting down and being annoyed/disruptive or them finding someone who better fits their playstyle?