Yeah, how dare someone, new to 5e, post their concerns. I mean it is not like a message board is meant for discussion, right?
What I find ‘old’, is people pooping on a thread topic that does not appeal to them, instead of making their Wisdom save and walking away.
I’m not, trying to single you out atanakar, I fail those type of saves all the time as well, (like now).
Feeling frustrated at something you care about, and sharing your frustrations with people who also care about that same something is truly old....as old as humanity.
We were asked "do you agree". My answer was no.
But I will also admit that I don't find it particularly constructive to complain about something and never take advice or consider alternatives. In this case it's just such a general rant that the OP is going to get some pushback.
That and I don't see acknowledging that if you "hate" the fundamental core systems of a game that it might not be for you. Hopefully some advice can help, but there are popular games out there that I'd rather not play. It's not the game's fault, I just acknowledge it isn't for me.