Played the heck out of DA:O, completed several times.
DA2 came around and I played the heck out of it. It felt tiny. Lacking the grandeur or scope of the first. But oh, the NPCs. I have to admit I never played a serious rogue playthrough and really snubbed our favorite pirate wench because I required Varric's snark in my party at all times. I reinstalled in last year and played some more.
DA:I looked so good. All the size and scope that DA2 was missing. Except... no. It was a grind, and most of it wasn't important, except to itself. Oh, look, a bunch of crafting stuff so you have multiple reasons to do the grind. Nope, just didn't work. I finished it once, tried a few more times but couldn't. Reinstalled a few years later and gave up pretty quickly. It had the plot of DA:O, but spread it so thin you needed to grind so much. And while it had some great NPCs, the grind was too much. It was good there were so many good NPCs, because my favorite favorite Varric just wasn't the same. They gave him snark, but meh. Oh, and grind grind GRIND grind grind griiiind grind grind grind gRiNd grind grind grind grind grind grindy grind grind grind grind grind grind grind grind McGrind.
AS for it being ME like - I started with ME2, loved it. ME3, loved it except the end. Tried ME1, didn't finish. Played a lot of ME:Andromeda but ultimately never finished, and got annoyed how much dev time went into the multiplayer instead of the story mode since that's not what I bought the game for.
I'm still buying it. What do you call it when your logical expectations are mid but your hopes are high and doing a Snoopy Dance that a new one is coming out so your emotional expectations are way up there?