francisca
I got dice older than you.
CaptainCalico said:I wonder if someone’s degree of concern about “official” vs. “unofficial” correlates closely with how often one switches gaming groups.
Naw. It has more to do with the fact that some people think the way they play the game is *the only* way and anyone else who is different must be an idiot.
Human nature I suppose.
Play the game your group wants to play and enjoy it. If you play with a different crew than the norm, deal with the differences. It's a game for cryin' out loud. People who get into flame wars and pissing contests over what is official and/or what house or 3rd party rules are "better" need to relax and have fun playing the game. Then again, most forums would be pretty quiet.

I understand very clearly the problem conflicting or variant rules can cause, but part of being a DM is making rulings to resolve those sorts of things. If your DM can't arbitrate something like that, it's time for a new DM. If a particular player pouts and whines about the rulings and ruins the fun, give her/him the boot. D&D should be fun.
Repeat after me: Rule 0 rocks.