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Vraille Darkfang said:Go with Gwendolyn:
1. It has a nice short form Gwen, should your daughter ever want to go with that.
2. You can spell upteen different ways: Gwendolinn, Gwyndolin, Gwendylinn, etc. That may not sound like that big of deal, but in today's identity theft world, a complex name can save your butt. (I myself can now thank my horrid handwriting to saving me from fighting a massive amount of identiy theft, the person couldn't read my social security number & got it wrong, I also have friends with weird name spellings that got them off the idenity theft hook).
By giving her a unique (yet common, Gwen), you protect her, yet let her make the option as to whether shes wants a unique, pretty name that sets her apart or a more common name that lets her fit in.
She'll probably do both as she goes through phases growing up.
Plus Gwendolynn, Gwendylynn, whatever will make her very mad when she goes to kindergarten & she has to learn to spell her name, along with all the Kims, Tommys & Johns in her class. It'll make her a better writer.
This is exactly the way we went -- named our daughter Gwendolyn/Gwen.
Sometimes I'll call her Gwenyfar, her mother sometimes calls her Gwennie.
And only my best friend guessed why the name came to my mind ... "Hey, wasn't
that Peter Parker's first girlfriend?"

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