No, it's really not. I'd much rather have a civil conversation with someone than be misrepresented, accused of having motivations that I don't have, and have polite requests for information ignored. I don't come to D&D forums for those things. I come here to talk to other people who like D&D. If other people have a difference of opinion with me about something, hey, that's fine; I don't expect everyone to agree with me. All I do expect is some civility, and to be treated like an individual instead of being lumped in with the words and motivations of other posters.