Gaming groups: friends or all business?

Is your gaming group friends, or just people you game with?

  • I game with old and/or good friends only.

    Votes: 49 32.2%
  • I game to game; the people are pretty much interchangeable as long as their good.

    Votes: 7 4.6%
  • Some combination of the above, i.e. just people who game who grew into friends, etc..

    Votes: 93 61.2%
  • Other (please explain.)

    Votes: 3 2.0%

My origional gaming group of friends was a group of flatmates, me, 3 guys and 2 girls, many years ago and we've since gone our seperate ways a long time ago. Back with 1E Shadowrun and some 1E-2E D&D.
We sort of played together on and off for about 6 years, I shanghai'd in a few others along the way, like 3 girls and 3 guys I knew from high school and ended up in the same town at uni. Then there was my best friend at uni who had a boyfriend and I used to steal him off her on the weekends along with another 2 guys I shared a house with, that bloke ran some of the best Shadowrun games ever, an utter genius.

That went on for about 4-5 years and finding or running a game was easier than falling down drunk :)

Then most of us parted ways after uni finished and I found a Darksun campain pickup game at a FLGS, in between wargaming and painting mini's, of which painting mini's for other people seemed to contribute about 40% of my earnings back in the day. That lasted a year or so and I cant really say I found it easy to like all of them but my unemployed self needed something to fill in time.
After the Darksun game finished up I found another guy in a hobby store who played Warhammer with gameradar and turned up there at his joint with a few boxes of my own armies and found out they played D&D and a whole heap of other RPG's I'd never heard of.
So in between getting my arse kicked by the guy I met in the game store (he cheated and while I had prettier mini's I wasnt much of a tactitian either!) and lo and behold some of the old Darksun people where there, who also cheated in Warhammer a lot but a game was a game... we started playing RPG's again. All sorts of them and the warhammer cheats evn managed to cheat in RPG's but they where easier to squish at least. ;)

Out of that core group 10-12 years later, theres 4 of us who, older, crustier and crankier still play as regually as we can, I'd consider them best of friends. So I spend my weekends driving a 350km round trip to see them as often as I can.

I dunno if anyone else would have me really :D
 

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when i first started gaming it was with friends (first) and i played with them for 10+ years before life got in the way (marriage, school, moving, jobs, kids, etc)

but i also concurrently started a gaming club at my local high school and introduced the game to people i didn't know before gaming (like underclassmen or friends of friends or girls ;) )


and of course i was online in the nonface to face gaming years.

with the 25th anniversary releases in 1999. i started to actively look for gamers in my area. (a far different place than where i used to game). and i saw mention of the new "edition" online. ;)

so all of the gamers i've met recently were gamers (first) ; friends later (although not all of them became friends)

i must admit i prefer gaming with friends. but it is like playing the edition you want. sometimes it is better to game than not game.
 

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I've met so many folks through gaming. My current group is mainly good friends. It is really rare to find a group of people who like to game like you do. Once you find that group, its easier to pick and choose in the future.

I picked option three. Most of the guys I game with I met through gaming, but have known for many years now.

I game on a very odd schedule considering I work graveyard shift. We often game from 11 at night to the early to late morning. You definitely can't do that with just anyone. By the way, anyone in the Seattle, WA area who likes to game after midnight to the early morning on Tuesday and Wednsday nights feel free to drop me an e-mail at:

amneth@mindspring.com
 


I am currently playing in 2 groups. Group number 1 is made up of good friends. These are the people I hang out with when we are not gaming, in fact, we probably do more hanging out lately than we do gaming. When I met them, it was just a group to game with, but over the years they have become my primary circle of friends. These are the people that I would hang out with, even if we never played another game together. Group number 2 is a group that I game with, but it is just to play. I really don't know them very well, and we've only played a few sessions.
 

Friends...and such...!!!

I voted for "Some combo" but upon reflection should have voted for "I just want to game" as my current group in the UK consist of very long term friends who I have known since the heady days of basic DnD red box set. However, I have played with other groups over the years who I met thru hobby stores and college social groups etc...and have played with some excellent roleplayers in the USA. Some of which did end up becoming my friends. I don't mind playing with anybody as long as they are friendly and have a good attitude. Cheers All... :)
 

Mostly old friends. But when 3E came out I went to look for gamers since I had no group at the time.
Found a couple who have become friends since then.
But I like them anyway. I can't imagine playing with a group of people I don't get along with for the sake of gaming. Seems like it would deter the fun I would have. YMMV
 

Piratecat said:
Don't believe it; I can't get this SOB out of my back yard.

Dave, get away from those garbage cans, and quit hogging my wireless broadband!

Damn, I guess I failed my Disguise check. I should've known that I was a little too big to pass a racoon. :D
 
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Davelozzi said:
Damn, I guess I failed my Disguise check. I should've known that I was a little too big to pass a racoon. :D

Johnny Cash wins an MTV award.*checks off list*
Madonna releases children's books.*checks off list*
A gaming stalker.*checks off list*

OK, the end of the World should be any day now... :)


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I am fortunate that I am blessed with a group of 8 people, six of whom are friends, and 2 of whom are acquaintences (due to age difference instead of personality), and we all go to Movies, to Dinner, to Gaming, etc. One I have gone to Gencon with twice - he's a real standup guy who has your back no matter the situation, and if it had never been for gaming, I never would have met him.

The funny part is, my gamers have been more of my family over the past 12 years of so than my own family has; out of the gaming buddies I grew up with in high school and college:

-1 was best man at my wedding
-2 others were groomsmen
-1 got introduced through me to my old high school girlfriend and married her (which made me very happy to know that two such good friends found one another)
-all of the above have supported one another through many rough spots in their early 20's, and we still keep in touch today, though having moved away.

At conventions and gamedays, I game with strangers, but many of them I already know through these forums and others; and those I don't know, I at least become acquaintences with. I have RARELY met a gamer I disliked.
 

I only game with friends, but I'm more than willing to invite new persons to my table for a game. If I like their company, they can become regulars. :)
 

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