darjr
I crit!
I'm sure they see it as a weakness. Which is the actual weakness. An inability to take a good look at themselves and have the courage to try and understand and accept responsibility and that they could be wrong. It can be very painful and in their selfishness they won't take on the work.In my professional life, I long ago made a conscious decision to practice and offer unqualified, true apologies for my shortcomings and mistakes (which are inevitable, given my job depended upon making important decisions based upon limited information and probabililties).
It's an essential life skill, for being a responsible person.
These guys do not know how to apologize.