Gygax doesn't matter?

Personally, I was very sad when I heard Gary died. Never met the guy in my life, but a 6th grade teach of mine introduced me to Tolkien and when I liked that she mentioned the D&D group she sponsored on Friday afternoons. This led me to Basic D&D and the influence of Gary. I've spent the past 20 years playing D&D and a ton of other RPGs, reading lots of sci-fi and fantasy and I point directly to my teacher. I've told her a few times how important it has been in my life and I'm glad I've told her.

If Gary and Dave hadn't designed the game they did, I'm sure someone else would have made something similar at some point. But would it have been as good? Would it have gotten as popular as it did? Would the industry be even a fraction of its current size?
I really don't know. Maybe everything would have been even bigger and more mainstream years earlier. I do know the way things actually did go down and the result they've had on the world and me in particular.

I've never heard of this game designer or his games. Hopefully he's earning a decent living after either having played the game Gary helped create or games that came about from people playing Gary's game. Here is a rather telling quote to me:

"Clinging to Gary so you, the self-conscious gamer, can avoid feeling alone and awkward in your nerd shame is giving Gary a lot more credit than he deserves."

How many of the people are doing this? Not many that I can tell. I'll be very sad when Stan Lee dies too. Stan Lee created a lot of great characters and wrote great stories that I have enjoyed over the years. I give Gary his due and say that my life would have been less than it is if he had not existed. Just imagining not having the hours of time my D&D group spent together in high school alone is staggering. Some of us would not have hung out if it hadn't been for the game. Just didn't run in the same circles really.

We almost moved an hour away from my hometown to Cincinnati OH when I was about to go into high school. I would have likely had a very different life if we had. It's possible I would have gotten deeper into RPGs just like I did, but maybe I would have been more active in sports and not done the gaming thing. I might have gone to a different school and not had the friends I did and thus never have met the woman I eventually married and soon have 2 children with. I try not to go back and ponder these what ifs anymore, b/c while there are some things I do regret doing or not doing, I love where I'm at and who I am and that's what matters.

Matt Snyder has made sure that I'll avoid his work in the future instead of just not knowing who he is tho, so I guess he helped me to potentially save money. How often does that happen? :)
 

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+5 Keyboard! said:
Hey Shilsen, thanks for taking the time to respond to my posts. I still find your emotional processes hard to fathom, and perhaps I'm even jealous of such emotional selectiveness if it's real, but I totally respect that and the way you comport yourself. :)

No problem. That's what I like about ENWorld. I can have civil (well, unless I'm arguing about 4e right now :D) discussions with people about what elves should eat, or whether Edmund Spenser provides appropriate archetypes for paladins, or whether I'm a robot or a Vulcan.

pawsplay said:
Isn't life a little sorrowful? I think the poem is about meaning, not responses. Of course we feel sadness at passing and joy at new life. We also feel enjoyment from a good meal and discomfort from starvation. But I know life, death, sustenance, and discomfort are all part of our existence. Philosophically, I accept death, even welcome it when it comes in a time amicable to me. I love life, but also recognize that to live is to strive, and to strive, you must suffer.

I understand that life is a little, and often vastly, sorrowful but that's an emotion I usually engage with intellectually. And I strive constantly in my life and my work, but I don't suffer. Not too long ago, I almost tossed my academic career (I'm a teacher and Ph.D. student) out of the window on a point of principle. While the situation was going on, everyone I knew couldn't understand why I wasn't at all worried or concerned about it. My answer was always simple - stress or suffering wouldn't help, so I didn't have any. I just did whatever I needed to, and it involved a lot of striving, but that was all.

Teflon Billy said:
You're a credit to the federation Spock :)

A friend of mine once said that if Spock was shorter and funnier and Indian, he'd be me :)

Wandering Monster said:
...you green-blooded goblin!

You know, that's one I haven't had applied to me yet. I'll work on it.
 

+5 Keyboard! said:
I ..didn't post to every messageboard I frequent waxing nostalgic and announcing the various ways I planned to honor his passing.

Is this wrong, or are you simply observing that you don't choose to mourn this way?

To the OP's comment, I ask, "What would the Colonel do?" I don't honestly know exactly how he'd respond, if at all, but I expect it would be witty and dry and quickly move on to something of value....
 



This Matt Snyder guy is a ****. Gary Gygax (co-)created something I enjoy that has, in turn, inspired other things I enjoy. I was also sad when I found out Lloyd Alexander passed away because he also created something I enjoy. That doesn't make me sappy; it makes me grateful.

Also, from his posts here Gary seemed like a nice guy (although I did not interact with him myself) and he did a great job on Futurama. :)
 




I saw the link and at first refused to follow it and just ignored this thread, then it kept popping back to the top so I finally did follow it and read it.

I should have followed my first instincts.

As several have pointed out, this guy is just looking for attention. He is probably lurking in the shadows just thrilled that he is receiving so much press; and as they say in Hollywood "All press is good press". I know, I am contributing to this continued "bad boy gets attention" by posting myself (shame on me), but only this once to say to the rest please stop. Let this thread die the undignified death it deserves. Simply discussing how irrelevant this guy is MAKES him relevant, something I have very little desire to do.

Zoatebix said:
If by failed you mean award winning...

Seriously guys, quit making me defend this dude I don't even know or like.
Obviously, 2002 was a very bad year for the industry then.

If I were inclined to re-visit his site, I might find myself posting something snarky there about his relevance and a link to the Wired article, like this:
http://www.enworld.org/showthread.php?t=221266
but no, I am already saying "There's 10 minutes of life wasted that I will never get back" regarding Matt Snyder, that's plenty.
 

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