I'll agree with those who have been sensitive to an underlying unspoken accusation of bigotry simply because they don't actively campaign for a given issue - especially during their games. Maybe that accusation isn't there, but it sure feels like it is. Most of us simpl do not even thin about gender or sexuality in a game; we think about killing things and taking their stuff. Or, if we're feeling a bit more cerebral, we think about spoiling the BBG's Machievellian plot.
But we don't think black/white, gay/straight, east/west, right/left etc. We just think "good/evil".