DrJawaPhD
Hero
I've always seen it play out this way in practice. Players say what they attempt to do, then the DM either says it works with no skillcheck or decides what skillcheck to roll (often giving multiple options for the player to pick between). Players can always make suggestions but that's all it is, a suggestionI mean, RAW, the player is supposed to describe what their character is doing- then the DM calls for what kind of check they think it is. That's not how it ends up playing out, because the player knows what their PC is good at and wants to make use of that, buuut..I get it. Players want to maximize their chances of success/minimize failure.
Phrasing what you attempt to do in a way that best utilizes your character's skills is totally fine (even realistic in many cases), but once you commit to doing an action you're locked in before you find out what skillcheck the DM calls for