How did you find your gaming group?

How did you find your gaming group?

  • Close buddies since school/college!

    Votes: 70 43.5%
  • Found them through an ad at a gaming store

    Votes: 23 14.3%
  • Found them through a message-board

    Votes: 33 20.5%
  • Satan led me to them.

    Votes: 21 13.0%
  • Through a friend of a friend of a friend of a...

    Votes: 26 16.1%
  • Weird Quirk of Fate

    Votes: 26 16.1%
  • Other (feel free to explain)

    Votes: 23 14.3%

  • Poll closed .
Well, most of my group I know through school, however I met my other group that occaisionally meets right here on the ENBoards. Along with a bunch of other posters, I get together and play a game every so often up at Games Plus--that's lots of fun.

My home group started with two close friends and has now expanded by word of mouth among us to a healthy number of 7 (me and six players). I'm truly amazed by it. :D
 

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well, i had been out of high school for a few months. i had not played dnd for two years as the hack and slash style of my then teammate on the football team/dm and current roomate (he is playing NWN right now in the next room) bored the heck out of me. one day i heard another driver for the pizza place i worked at discussing dnd with a cook. not really having spoken with any of my coworkers about liesure activities, i jumped in headfirst describing my last character in intricate detail, including the slight bend in his sword from the time he critically hit an iron golem for max damage. so i got in, moved into their place, and except for six months after we quit living together (3 solid days of in character speech at both home and work ended that) we have been a gaming group for 7 years.

so my advice is sit back and LET SATAN DO HIS WORK, he is a subtle bastard.
 

I voted that I was led to them by Satan... but it's actually the other way around. Satan led them to me...

Well, more seriously, it seems like people just hear that I am the local DM of sorts. I am still in High School, so it is convenient that people (and one hell of a strange variety of people) just approach me. I have some people that I have known since about sixth grade, and some people that I met only once. I have also recruited some of the more "charismatic" people I know, because they are the kind of people that should be learning how to play some kind of free-form entertainment.

I have had groups of 12 Player characters, but I favor groups of six or seven (enough to keep alive in really bad conditions, with out enough people to easily walk through an encounter of thier level). I had to cut out some people... (one heckling cleric that decided that his characters purpous in life was to be a peeping tom... which is just one really screwed up person to DM for) but I find that anyone that plays at least one game tends to learn a lot about freedom.

This game has been very productive for a lot of my players, and maybe even for me some. I'll even tell a short story about it...

There was this guy... who had the habit of being big... dumb... and a follower. He had a girlfriend that WAS his boss. He had an attitude that was... non-existant. He was your basic creeper (creeping through life on whatever he could get without trying too hard).

We played together for about a year. I learned a lot about what players really want. What roleplaying means was a big development in our gaming. At first, I though roleplaying was being a drama queen... but that all changed.

This kid was a year older than me, and was secretely very upset that he had no clue what he wanted to do with his future. I was always a vocal "I'm going to go to college at the University of Minnesota at Minneapolis, and I'm going to take law, but I think I'm going to try and take some computer science courses if I can."

He was starting to say things like "I'm going to join the army..." but trust me, the army isn't for this guy. He's just doesn't have the integrity for that kind of work (and I believe I have a pretty good idea about that, I'd mention my background with the Air-Force JROTC and CAP and my uncles friend "the general" but that's not part of the story).

I convinced him that he's doing the same thing he always did when he played DnD... he's standing in the back row trying to get by. I gave a hard lecture about his habits of being a "wuss" about everything.

Now, it didn't make him feel good immediately. He was angry at first. We sort of broke our friendship, but it did him a lot of good. Last time I heard, he's trying to make something of himself (instead of trying to slit his wrists) and he is going to go to junior college for art. He might not be a great artist, but he is at least progressing at something he enjoys. At least he isn't trying to hurt himself, right?

Well that's why I like the game... because it teaches you a little more about trying, and a lot more about what the word "character" is supposed to mean. Character Building means something literal, and something scopical to me.

Thanx DnD.
 


Quirk o' Fate -- I had just started working as a shelver in the NCSU Library, and was putting up some books in the stacks one night when I heard the familiar sounds of Gaming. Peeking my head into the study lounge the group had commandeered, I struck up a conversation with the group, and joined a few days later.
 

Well, my current D&D group

1 is an old gaming friend since '93 - he showed up uninvited to one of my games with a guy I met at school back then - He ended up in the gam and the guy from school dropped out.

1 is an old college friend I started gaming with around '95 or '96 - we met thru people we knew in common and were housemates for a few years as well

1 I met thru the Gamer Seeking Gamer boards of the boards when they belonged to Eric Noah.

1 I met thru an ad posted in the Complete Strategist - I saw his ad looking for a game and called him up

and

2 were from an Amber Diceless game I was briefly involved in (run by the first player mentioned above)
 

After I moved to the area, I started hanging out a game store occasionally. I became friends with the owner, and I joined their weekly game. It's been going strong now for about a year and a half.
 

Other: I created them. (My wife helped. :D)

Seriously, my current PC party consists of my two sons. And no, they weren't created solely for that purpose... :D

Johnathan
 

back in '91 Myself and a buddy of mine answered an ad in the newspaper (no intarweb then) and joined up with a DM. Since then we have gone through dozens of people and now we have spread out half the group to the state of TN and the other half live in florida. So the original DM now lives in seattle. The original players (me and another gal) live in FL and TN respectively.

My current group?

2 couple that joined up one nite through friend, friend no longer plays but the couple still does (a boy is on the way! one more gamer!)

1 same as above

1 friend of couple

1 met at LGS invited to play

I think that covers my current party est may 2002...11 yrs..sheesh..
 

I met my current group thru a bulletin board at Games Plus Hobby store. I had just moved from Milwaukee to Evanston (job) and was looking for things to do on the weekends.

That was 8 years ago !

I moved back to Milwaukee about 4 years ago and trek on down for our bi-weekly Sunday game.

It is a great group of adult gamers.

The GM and one player were collegeg buddies.
Another couple also joined from the GP post.
later on we recruited my brother
For the latest campaign I have recruited a local WH40K friend to drive down with me.

Although real life intrudes more than any of us wish, I look forward to each game.
 

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