Debbie, Marcie, and Ms. Frost
That is a tragic tale.
In the first group I played in, noone was allowed to refer to themselves as their character. So you couldn't say, "I hack at the orc with my broadsword," it would always be, "Clomind kneels behind a boulder and fires at the unsuspecting giant."
I loved it because it encouraged my descriptive ability.
Later, I found out we did it because it was supposed to be disassociative. The DM had learned to play from someone who's friend had freaked out.